For sumone spl

Our friendship is one of a kind,

One most people never find.

I never knew from the start,

Just how much you would touch my heart.

I'm so glad you came into my life,

You have filled it with so much delight.

My Friend brightens my days, in wonderful and magical ways.

her thoughtfulness comes, as a gift from above.

And I feel I'm surrounded by warm caring love.

Yes this is for that special friend of mine who is not my school, college, office or neighborhood friend, but really very special. 
She is my net friend but calling her net friend wud be wrong as she has understood me a lot w/out even meeting me till date.

Oh i forgot to tell that its been a year we have met......have we met????? no we haven't met physically yet but it doesn't feel like we haven't met.....

We have a gr8 tuning and share a lot in lives.
exactly a year ago on 18th nov, 2010 sum one msgd me asking why am not having any FB update and i was surprised why is one spying me....later i saw a beautiful mother behind that unknown character and now after a year she is not only known but a regular routine of my life. 

At times i miss not saying a simple HI to her.

I sometimes feel empty if i don't get mails from her.

Its a regular affair to interact with her, else its incomplete day.

i know it seems to much but it happens when 2 people click on same bandwidths isn't it?

I don't know of her friends list it may be long but my friends list is very small and she occupies a special place in it. 

Oh! how can I forget to thank her for one more important thing, Yes its b'coz of her and one more neighborhood friend of mine, that i started writing this blog. She helped me with her comments and somehow motivated me, even though i am not a good writer. Thnx again.

Sometimes it's hard to comprehend
This special bond we share.
A thousand miles between us,
Yet, somehow, you're always there.

Perhaps we'll meet in person Over coffee and some pie.
For now, we'll sip our "coke & chai",
As we type a friendly, "Hi!"
You're a special part of my life,
Even though we're far apart.
Your friendship is a treasure
That I cherish in my heart.

I love you, my special friend,
and I just wanted you to know it!   

The connection we have, was not planned.
How I bless the day we met!

Handle with care

Kids these days are difficult to handle or i must say i find it very difficult to handle my kid. When i ask my mom she says my generation was not that stubborn or i should say i was not, then why being a mom i am not able to handle my kid???

Lot of reasons the exposure today's kid is getting we were not getting,
the lifestyle today's kid get is different from what we had,
the toys today's kid plays are also different, mobiles, x-box, psp's, its all gadget world.

My kid denies to study and asks me what will i get if i study, is study give and take???? i never knew???
Whenever i take out his books and notebooks he will feel tired and beginning is all negative.

He has no patience or say tolerance to anything. he will constantly hurt others but if u hurt or scold him he will all out and start shouting and will ensure that his tantrums are attended to.

He is the naughtiest kid i have seen. List is endless if i discuss i am not saying he is bad but i find it difficult to handle him.
Will deny brushing in morning whatsoever you say, will do it when taking bath.
Will not eat food with his own hands while he does the same in school.
Will not do homework and also is not afraid of teacher, as it is scolding is banned hmmmmm.
Loves to hit others and purposefully just for the sake of fun.
Glued to cartoon all the time. i seriously hate doraemon, ninja hattori, oggy.
I tried to lock all channels for a week but his tantrums were outof control and i had to give up.

I know after reading now i am feeling he is not that bad there are times he does lot of help to me but the truth stays that he is difficult to handle.

Diwali time i said no but still he didn't listen to me and burned his fingers.
Daily he blews off the diya we place in front of god in evening.
Will punch things out of his way if he dislikes them.
Will hit your hand if you are feeding something he don't like.
Will cut leaves of plants with his toy sword saying i am playing karate with them.
Will torn pages from my books with scissor saying i don't like these pages.
Does karate with his sibling.
Will mix mud in water saying this is chocolate water....innovative isnt it!!!


I really want suggestions to handle this hyperactive non-listening kid of mine.