Wednesday, 12 November 2014

For sumone spl

Our friendship is one of a kind,

One most people never find.

I never knew from the start,

Just how much you would touch my heart.

I'm so glad you came into my life,

You have filled it with so much delight.

My Friend brightens my days, in wonderful and magical ways.
her thoughtfulness comes, as a gift from above.
And I feel I'm surrounded by warm caring love.

Yes this is for that special friend of mine who is not my school, college, office or neighborhood friend, but really very special. 
She is my net friend but calling her net friend wud be wrong as she has understood me a lot w/out even meeting me till date.

Oh i forgot to tell that its been a year we have met......have we met????? no we haven't met physically yet but it doesn't feel like we haven't met.....

We have a gr8 tuning and share a lot in lives.
exactly a year ago on 18th nov, 2010 sum one msgd me asking why am not having any FB update and i was surprised why is one spying me....later i saw a beautiful mother behind that unknown character and now after a year she is not only known but a regular routine of my life. 

At times i miss not saying a simple HI to her.
I sometimes feel empty if i don't get mails from her.
Its a regular affair to interact with her, else its incomplete day.
i know it seems to much but it happens when 2 people click on same bandwidths isn't it?

I don't know of her friends list it may be long but my friends list is very small and she occupies a special place in it. 

Oh! how can I forget to thank her for one more important thing, Yes its b'coz of her and one more neighborhood friend of mine, that i started writing this blog. She helped me with her comments and somehow motivated me, even though i am not a good writer. Thnx again.

Sometimes it's hard to comprehend
This special bond we share.
A thousand miles between us,
Yet, somehow, you're always there.

Perhaps we'll meet in person Over coffee and some pie.
For now, we'll sip our "coke & chai",
As we type a friendly, "Hi!"

You're a special part of my life,
Even though we're far apart.
Your friendship is a treasure
That I cherish in my heart.

I love you, my special friend,
and I just wanted you to know it!

The connection we have, was not planned.
How I bless the day we met!

Saturday, 8 November 2014

Handle with care

Kids these days are difficult to handle or i must say i find it very difficult to handle my kid. When i ask my mom she says my generation was not that stubborn or i should say i was not, then why being a mom i am not able to handle my kid???

Lot of reasons the exposure today's kid is getting we were not getting,
the lifestyle today's kid get is different from what we had,
the toys today's kid plays are also different, mobiles, x-box, psp's, its all gadget world.

My kid denies to study and asks me what will i get if i study, is study give and take???? i never knew???
Whenever i take out his books and notebooks he will feel tired and beginning is all negative.

He has no patience or say tolerance to anything. he will constantly hurt others but if u hurt or scold him he will all out and start shouting and will ensure that his tantrums are attended to.

He is the naughtiest kid i have seen. List is endless if i discuss i am not saying he is bad but i find it difficult to handle him.
Will deny brushing in morning whatsoever you say, will do it when taking bath.
Will not eat food with his own hands while he does the same in school.
Will not do homework and also is not afraid of teacher, as it is scolding is banned hmmmmm.
Loves to hit others and purposefully just for the sake of fun.
Glued to cartoon all the time. i seriously hate doraemon, ninja hattori, oggy.
I tried to lock all channels for a week but his tantrums were outof control and i had to give up.

I know after reading now i am feeling he is not that bad there are times he does lot of help to me but the truth stays that he is difficult to handle.

Diwali time i said no but still he didn't listen to me and burned his fingers.
Daily he blews off the diya we place in front of god in evening.
Will punch things out of his way if he dislikes them.
Will hit your hand if you are feeding something he don't like.
Will cut leaves of plants with his toy sword saying i am playing karate with them.
Will torn pages from my books with scissor saying i don't like these pages.
Does karate with his sibling.
Will mix mud in water saying this is chocolate water....innovative isnt it!!!

I really want suggestions to handle this hyperactive non-listening kid of mine.

Saturday, 6 September 2014

its with me or murphys law to blame

Since last 5 days i was planning to make cake OK somehow it got delayed but yes today i have no other commitments so i will make it for sure, i went to kitchen and collected all the required ingredients so they are well at room temperature and when i start making cake after lunch and all other chores are finished whats there in my bag???? no electricity whooop!!!!!!!! lights have gone when will they come back dont know.
electricity was never a problem since last one week only when i started making cake who told hem, or was there some one who wants to trouble me ufff!!!!

Tuesday, 2 September 2014

Not so lucky

Lately i don't know why nothing is happening as i want it to be, things are totally opposite of expected. I am getting irritated as you have to always solve the problems in front and things are just not under control.
Still being  a woman, i have to keep up with everything also i have 4 kids at home yes..........2 small 2 big(elders) and hubby not around official travel u see....
so beginning from morning something is there for me to create problem, either my kid will refuse to go to school for no good reason, or i will get an urgent call to reach for some social work responsibility and then i have to leave all personal tasks for that.....on top of i broke my car as i am feeling low. again an elder at home is hospitalized for unidentified prob so more tests and all that. i am like feeling why on earth things trouble single women. hubby only talks on phone or sms well that's soothing but practically only i have to run and things are not in control.
if i talk to some friend they start delivering lectures on positive thinking and few will even ask me to do yoga, tell me where to do? in hospital or while running here and there for different tasks.
i will add i feel it may be also SAD there's something called seasonal affective disorder, is it bcoz of that i am feeling low and things are not in [proper coordination or its me who is incapable? don't know don't have time to think see just now maid also called and to my fear she is going for 10 day holiday as some sad demise at her place too.....ufff
so i have to be maid too, baby sitter, care taker and other endless duties. i never fear from work but would enjoy doing all if thing are in well coordination atleast for me. Oh god till when testing times will continue?

kids amaze always

there are lot of incidents i know we share with our kids but ever thought of writing them and then reading them to enjoy them again and again. i thought of doing it and so is the endless list of activities.
  • when he started talking use to call water "amma" did i teach him no ways.......
  • is always confused about he then his father then grandfather and mother. wen i call my mom "aai" he says why u say so only i will call u "aai" u should not say it to anyone else its not for sharing.
  • for him the eldest in house is his dad.......guess why coz of his height not age ok
  • i was teaching him living and non living the first question after giving him lots of examples was what is blood - living or nonliving? i was surprised leaving all the things around him what made him think of this.
  • if i scold him by saying i will tell your mam.....he replies i will tell your mam i remember ur school name will search on net and call her, uff kids i tell u, genius.
  • these days he is amused with ATM machine, well i m explaining him but lets see what is his feedback...
  • now he is 4 and operates my touchscreen mobile like he is a pro, wants to see all songs on it, so i have loaded only his nursery rhymes smart mom i am haha
  • Life is so simple for kids isn't it. I wish it was as simple as it seem to them.................

Friday, 1 August 2014

vanishing writing

A few days back i wrote a article for some emcee, and then i firstly wrote it in word then decided to jot it down on a piece of paper.....when all work was done i realized it little tiring to write it down on paper, does this happen with everyone????

We are forgetting to write, I am fond of writing letters so once in a month I do write but i saw many people who only hold the pen to either sign or underline, we no more write....if this goes on humans will soon forget what is the art of writing as they will only know how to type and press buttons on keyboard.

Friday, 27 June 2014

solution oriented way of approaching problem

The title is something i recently read in my fresh read book, and i fell for it.
i just loved this positive line which i feel sometimes we don't incorporate in our lives.
Everyone just everyone you, me he, she all think there or say our problem is the biggest we are the only one struggling and facing life the way it is but if we really see the line of solution orientation our life can take a twist.

Grass is said to be greener always on the other or say opposite side so its always that we think that our problem has just no solution while its truth that solution lies then and there.
its truly said that no lock comes without a key so simple there is solution to all...

I realized this personally in my life a little late but agreed that we need to find solution to all prob on our own then only life will be great to live.

U may like to read my story WARMTH OF WOMB

Tuesday, 24 June 2014

Life is all about making choices

its all about making choices, but how to judge whether our choice which we selected is good or bad, OR right or wrong.
WE make choices to live,

we make choices to adjust,
we make choices to succeed,

Wednesday, 14 May 2014

this generation kids need time

Hi, I am like any other child, dear to my parents, and studying in an international school. My parents love me so much that they never turn down any of my demands; I have I-pods, play stations, a jazzy car and what not! But none of this catches my fancy any more u know why? They see to it that I get whatever I want. I am never denied of anything. Is it the true way to love?
But Still I am not happy. I have permission to take my friends to movies, cafes, mc Donald’s and pizzerias’ and organize parties everything I would want to do. But still I am not satisfied, what I really need is their company more than anything else. But my parents don’t have any time in their nine-to-eight schedule and their after work social hours, for me. Without their moral support, I have grown to be an amoral kid and have come to a passive attitude towards life.  I have become stubborn and adamant in a way. Would I have not been far better off, with          parents who could lend their time and support to me instead of their bank balance and materialistic approach.
I just want to tell all parents that I am not the only one but there are many children who are looking for a caring hand rather than materialistic pleasures. So, give your children your love and care and not materialistic comfort.

U may like to read my story WARMTH OF WOMB

Sunday, 23 February 2014


Last eve i talked to my cousin and he gave this name to my kids
ya my kids name starts with letter "M"
so my M & M candies are very sweet and colorful.

my candies also come with hidden flavors
they have the best of the attributes and  beautiful appearance.

U may like to read my story WARMTH OF WOMB

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